The Unruly Wife (Unruly Wife Syndrome)
Do you have a rebellious wife? One who was raised on liberal feminist ideas and those beliefs are so ingrained in her you’re struggling to bring out her natural submission for good? Do you have whiplash from the amount of times you’ve humbled her, broken her into full submission and thought you could breathe easy now that she “gets it”, only to find her back in her disrespectful ways 12 hours later? There is hope, while some men walk away and consider these women lost causes, and I can’t say I blame them, others consider it a challenge, and if you’re one of those men, and you’ve said challenge accepted… you’ve come to the right place. Do NOT allow her to continue with the constant back and forth, “she’s hot, then cold” way of living within your marriage. Each time you allow it, you’re doing a disservice to yourself, men as a species, and to her; she will never learn if you allow her to misbehave even in the slightest. The longer you allow her to believe she’s in control and is allowed to make decisions, the more difficult training her will be. You must make sure she’s more uncomfortable fighting her natural instinct, than she is embracing it. I have some tips that have worked on even the most rebellious of unruly and spirited women.
1. Take away her bra for good, especially if she’s got large breasts. And not just for the day, or at home, or in private, I mean entirely for at least a week. Remove the bras from her possession, keep them somewhere she can’t access them… period. If it’s uncomfortable for her or awkward in public, well, she will have to get creative with wearing jackets or holding a clipboard or something in front of her, and that’s fine, you can’t really have her udders swaying about wildly during school pick up, but the fact she needs to take action to avoid being obscene in public will still have the desired effect you want; it is reminding her she’s a woman. Nothing is as constant a reminder to her that she is a woman, as two large, uncaged breasts attached to the front of her, wobbling about as she walks, nipples grazing fabric, having them hang when she bends down, having to maneuver seatbelts, purse straps, backpacks etc. around them. She will find that she is constantly reminded of them, and this will remind her that she’s a woman, which… if you have been laying a proper foundation for her, will be enough to make her remember her role as supporter to the Head of Household. So yes my friends, if you only do one of my recommendations, it should be this one. Braless at all times, and do be sure to grope her often. Bonus tip: you can really drive the lesson home and make that lasting connection for her if you find ways to highlight her deficiencies and remind her of what’s been taken from her…
Dishes not getting done regularly as expected? Stash her bras in the dishwasher with a note that says: “Privileges belong to the disciplined. This seat is taken until the kitchen sparkles again.”
Laundry Neglected? Place her bras neatly inside the laundry hamper with a note that says: “These are waiting for the cycle of respect to begin. Laundry isn’t just a task—it’s a trust.”
Bed Left Unmade? Bra laid across the pillows with a note that reads: “This bed waits for order. Your comfort awaits your consistency.”
Clutter or Disorganization? Bra placed on top of the clutter spot with a note: “Clarity begins where chaos ends. Start here.”
Speaking Disrespectfully? Bra placed over a journal or communication notebook. The note reads: “Words matter. Reflect and reset, then earn your lace back.”
You get the idea, keep her, and anyone else who might be privy to see her “reminders” aware that she’s being humbled, brought back to submission and that you hold the power to do as you please. If she thinks this is all fun and games, then she will soon learn my motto:8 “If wife wants to play, then titties shall sway.”
2. Get her a Mentor. The mentor should be female and older, or at least more disciplined and well practiced in her wifely duties. Women that find themselves resistant to accepting their roles will find it easier to open their mind to the fact that they are instinctually submissive and her role is not to be the decision maker, it is to be a pleaser and peacekeeper, constantly finding ways to keep her man happy. If she sees another woman happy in her role, and hears it from another woman, she will get to her place of acceptance much quicker and with less push back to deal with. The perfect mentor for your wife should always be…. who else but your own Mother? If your Father was a good mentor to you; then it’s likely he disciplined your mother regularly in the home; and she’s the perfect woman to encourage your wife to be eager and in tune with her role in pleasing you and providing you with everything a homemaker wife should. If you are unable to use your Mother as her mentor, then you may seek mentors for her in the area, usually by asking men from your local church (they may have wives or mother’s who mentor, or know of one who mentored their own wife) especially if traditional ideals are upheld, or local groups that support traditional marriage and gender roles. If you can’t find an in person mentor for her, then online mentoring could be suitable, just make sure you properly vet the mentor and that she’s the real deal, if she doesn’t allow you to speak to her husband about it, that’s a red flag. Schedule meeting times for her and her mentor and make sure if the mentor hasn’t assigned her homework, that you pick assignments that are tangible, either through demonstration or pen to paper, and make sure she completes them and shares the assignment with you and her mentor alike.
3. Take away her makeup and beauty products. She may use basic moisturizer and a comb or brush, razor and shower supplies, floss, tooth brush and mouth wash, nothing else. She doesn’t need to be beautifying herself for anyone but you, and if she won’t leave the home without makeup, that is a practice she’s accustomed to for her own wants, or her desire for other men to see her as attractive, which is absolutely unacceptable. Remove the makeup from her possession entirely, she should have zero access to it. Humble her by making sure she goes out in public with a plain face and becomes used to the idea of not attempting to impress other men with masking her face. She won’t be feeling so hot to trot when she shows up at the grocery store plain faced and braless, she will seek to become more demure and fly under the radar, not wanting others to notice her and only doing things that draw attention if absolutely necessary. You want her learning to make herself blend in with her surroundings, keeping her perceived core personality in check, because her core personality, not her learned one, is demure and subservient, she just can’t remember that when men are ogling her for her whoreish makeup and clothing. You might think that removing her bra would make her stand out more but she will find ways to hide them from others seeing her braless state, I assure you. It’s about humbling her and her remembering you hold the reins in the marriage.
4. Exercise your rights and do it publicly. She needs to remember, especially in public, that if she leaves home for any reason without you, what her purpose is and her role. Do this by making sure she’s accustomed to being submissive to you in public settings. Find ways to reprimand her publicly, which shouldn’t be hard if she’s as wayward a wife as most whose husbands find themselves reading this article. Take her to eat dinner, if she orders from the menu, allow her, then cut her off while she’s speaking and change her order with the waiter. Say: “Honey… that’s not acceptable. No, she will have the grilled chicken and a side salad, hold the dressing.” You needn’t offer any explanation to her or the waiter. Then continue on about your time at dinner. Correct her repeatedly throughout the day if she does anything that gives you pause, or even if it doesn’t, do it just to get her in tune with not being the decision maker. If she makes a decision without seeking approval, scold her, bare her bottom and spank her, then send her to the corner for 5 min. You get the idea.
5. Corner time. I can’t stress enough how important corner time is for a wayward wife. She should be exposed when sent to the corner, bare her bottom or expose her breasts, or both. I prefer to have my wife in a skirt, and when she is sent to her corner, I pin the back up with safety pins and when she leaves corner times she is to continue on with cooking and cleaning with her bare ass out on display. Remind her often why she’s in this position and help her understand that her behavior won’t be tolerated and you don’t care who has to witness it.
6. Collar and leash her. If she can’t understand her role, or isn’t taking to it as naturally as one would expect a woman to, then you have to train her, and you’ll need to train her like a dog. You train a woman just like a dog honestly… very similar, you can even use dog training guides and techniques with women. Spend 30-45 min. Per day with her on a leash from a collar around her neck and teach her commands. Sit. Stay. Fetch. Lay down. Roll over. Etc. having her behaving like a dog in a collar and on a leash will quickly have her feeling silly and anything but dominant. There was a guy named Pavlaov who was really good at this. It’s not necessary for every woman, but for some, it’s the best way to break through.
If none of these work, and you’ve sincerely tried them all, there is one last step a man can take before throwing in the towel. Tune back into my future articles if you find yourself in that position. I’ll be writing about it in the next few weeks. Now get out there and break that ridiculous woman of her unruly ways, you do have it in you and you’ll reap the rewards if you stick with these simple Rules.
- Taylor Thomas